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The Weight of Almost

It’s almost surreal how some dreams demand to be set in motion out of necessity while others linger on the shelf, waiting for the elusive “right time.” We tell ourselves we’ll get to them—we’ll finish the degree, nurture the relationship or end it, launch the business, relocate, care for the body, or initiate the creative spark and finally give it room to burn. But the truth is, those deferred dreams, those carefully plotted plans, deserve more than just dust and good intentions. They deserve action. Because waiting for the perfect moment is often just another way of letting visions slip away.

It’s easy to make excuses—for living, for loving, for learning to do what it takes to move forward. We tell ourselves we’re not ready, that we lack the time, the resources, the nerve. But gumption is exactly what sets the wheels in motion. Courage isn’t something we wait for—it’s something we use. Hesitation, when left unchecked, hardens into habit. And before we know it, we’ve stalled, buried our momentum, and talked ourselves out of the very thing we were meant to do, letting purpose slip through our fingers while we wait for a certainty that will never come.

The new year arrived like a storm—chaotic, relentless, and riddled with unexpected shifts, few of them for the better. Long-standing effort has been shaken, hesitation has crept in, and fear is whispering its usual doubts. Nonetheless, whatever we set out to do, we need to finish.

Finishing isn’t about waiting to feel ready—it’s about showing up anyway, every day, with a clear mind and intentional heart. It’s about refusing to let setbacks become stop signs, silencing doubt before it makes decisions for us, and stripping external obstacles of the power we too often give them. When we trust ourselves enough to push through, we don’t just survive—we rise. We root ourselves in something stronger than circumstance. Every time we silence the inner critic and choose action over fear, we reclaim our narrative. We prove to ourselves – again and again – that we are capable, that we are unshaken, that we are here to win.

We either talk ourselves into greatness or out of it. Every day, we choose. How much longer will we let hesitation hold our dreams hostage, waiting for the “perfect” moment that never comes?

Life isn’t just meant to be started—it’s meant to be finished. It is a maze, full of twists, dead ends, and paths that don’t come with a map. But the weight of almost—of unfinished business, of dreams half-built and visions left hanging—can press heavy on the soul. We need clarity to navigate life, to become the best version of ourselves, and to move forward despite the unknown. Discipline helps us finish strong, and courage helps us to push through when the valley gets deep. The grind, the pain of hustling, the relentless push forward – it all reinforces the belief that what we’re building and who we’re becoming is worth every ounce of effort.

So bet on you.

Moving our intentions forward is a declaration of purpose, a commitment to show up for the life we are meant to live. It proves that persistence creates meaning and fulfillment in our story. Resilience doesn’t necessarily mark a finish line – it challenges us to keep pushing, to keep striving, to make every moment count while we’re here. The road may be long, but every step forward is proof that you’re still in the race. Your life matters now. Don’t let doubt slow you down.

“I will not give up on myself. I will not give up on my dreams. I will make my life count.”  – Pain Hustlers, 2022 film